Showing posts with label self-destructive behavior. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-destructive behavior. Show all posts

Sunday, January 4, 2015

Self-Destructing, Part 1

During the 1990s and into the start of the second millennium, Mel Gibson was a household name and a guaranteed box office draw. Even though he had had a history of alcoholism, Gibson seemed to have overcome his addiction through his faith in Christ. In 2004, his biggest film to date was released, “The Passion of Christ.” This film was co-written, co-produced, and directed by Gibson and was the highest grossing R-rated film in the U.S., earning over $370 million. Gibson stated in more than one interview that the reason he brought the execution of Christ to theaters was because during his recovery from alcoholism and depression, he had focused on the passion of Christ to find healing and hope. We collectively held our breaths to see what great thing this man (who seemed to love God) might do next.

And then the shoe dropped. In 2006, Gibson was arrested on DUI charges and spewed expletives and anti-Semitic remarks at the arresting officer. In 2009, photos were released of Gibson and a well-known female pianist who was not his wife caressing on a beach. This was shortly followed by his wife filing for a divorce and winning an estimated $425 million in a very expensive settlement. Things seemed to go from bad to worse, as his girlfriend gave birth to a child and charged him with domestic assault and filed a restraining order against Gibson. He has been disgraced in the media and rejected by Hollywood; and I, for one, am wondering, “What happened?” How does someone who seemed to be on fire for God, who was a significant player in creating such an incredibly moving movie such as “The Passion of Christ” completely self-destruct?

Asa became king of Judah upon the death of his father in 910 B.C. The first decade of his reign was spent in social reform and military expansion. He fortified the cities of Judah and experienced a time of peace. He had an army of 300,000 from Judah equipped with shields and spears; and 280,000 archers from Benjamin also stood ready for action. However, this army of brave men was small in comparison to the Ethiopian army which attacked Judah ten years after Asa took the throne. Zerah the Ethiopian led a military force consisting of a million men and three hundred chariots. It was undeniably superior to Judah’s. Yet, Asa was an honorable man who did right in the eyes of the Lord. He called out to the Lord his God, realizing that such a multitude of armed men was nothing for God. God struck the Ethiopians and gave Judah the victory. It was truly a “David and Goliath” moment. Asa was blessed by God’s spirit upon him and in the fifteenth year of his reign, rededicated the kingdom to God. He required all the people to take an oath to seek God with all their heart and soul. Twenty more years of peace followed. Asa’s kingdom flourished and so did he, and all the people collectively held their breaths to see what great thing this man who truly loved God might do next.

And then peace was threatened once again by Israel—a small army compared to the Ethiopians; however, there was the king of Israel on the threshold of Judah aggressively taking action against their nation. Asa misappropriated funds from the temple and from his own treasury and sent them on to Syria in an attempt to bribe the Syrian king to align with Judah rather than Israel. He wanted to strike a treaty with a nation which was clearly an enemy. It worked. Israel backed off. Yet, Syria escaped and would grow to be a thorn in Judah’s side in the future. God sent Hanani the seer to Asa to let him know the grave mistake he had made; but instead of humbling himself and confessing his sin, Asa’s heart had grown hard. He had Hanani placed in prison and oppressed those who dared to agree with God. Sometime later Asa became diseased in his feet, but rather than turning to God, he once again turned to man. He died shortly thereafter stubborn and far from reaching his full potential. Yet again I find myself wondering, “What happened?”  How does a life so full of promise fall short of God’s purpose? How do individuals so zealous for God and His work end up walking away with hardened hearts?

It happens time and time again—Gibson and Asa are only two instances of lives gone wrong. King Solomon has to be the most puzzling example. He was the wisest man to ever live, and because Solomon had requested wisdom from God rather than riches, God made him incredibly wealthy too. Under Solomon’s rule, Israel reached the peak of her power and expanded from the Euphrates river in the north to Egypt in the south—the largest it had ever been.  Solomon was a writer, architect, and advisor.  He composed 3,000 proverbs. He built the Holy Temple. He advised the Queen of Sheba. The splendor of his palace was incomparable. His throne was inlaid with ivory and overlaid with gold. There were six steps leading up to the throne seat and a lion stood on each side of the six steps. Lions also flanked both armrests. Nothing like it had ever been created. Unfortunately, Solomon had many (and many is really an understatement) foreign wives who led him astray. He began to follow their pagan gods going as far as building a high place of worship for the Moab and Ammonite gods. Adversaries were raised up against Israel. Solomon was warned that his kingdom would be taken from his son. Only for David’s sake would Rehoboam, Solomon’s son, be allowed to continue ruling one of the twelve tribes of Israel. A man, who had literally had the world at his fingertips, lost it all and died far from God. Again, why? How could someone so blessed with God’s favor, who knew God so intimately, be led away by the temporal pleasures of this world? However, the question that should  be asked is, if someone who communicated with God so personally and who probably had a better understanding of who God really is can be led awry, what will keep me from going off course? How can I finish strong and prevent my life from self-destructing?